Your body has nothing to do with me

“Your body has nothing to do with me!”

A phrase not used often enough which makes me mad… Each person is going through their own struggle, each unique individual has their own demons to fight – Why should we add to them?

Why has it become a norm to criticize the next person about their figure? There are few things in this world that make me more upset then victimization! When you in the mirror, Do you see your flaws? Do you see your imperfections and want somebody to point them out to you? The last thing a person wants to hear out loud are the thoughts that are running through their our minds daily.

As woman, we should be supporting each other, loving each lady as they are… yet we look through magazines and compare! Every day there are woman looking at themselves through the eyes of others and its wrong… You are in control of your own body – Why should you be judging others?

I am making a mission for myself and calling for others to do the same – Compliment instead of insulting!!! Every day give a woman a compliment, It doesn’t need to be only one it could be every woman you speak to. Whether its something small like a compliment on their shoes or something as big as “You’re an amazing mother” Just compliment a stranger, somebody out the blue and make their day!

Lets spread some confidence around and smash the common norm of comparison!!!

Keep loving yourself and find it in yourself to spread some love too…

Until next time


❤ Lady K


Manic Monday

Hi Ladies…

After a refreshing weekend with my Husband, I thought I was ready for the Manic Monday ahead of me…boy was I wrong… A busy morning started early with getting my Husband up and ready for work – He has been off for a few weeks recovering from a motorcycle accident. The task was simple and wasn’t as hard as I predicted it may be.

Once arriving at work, The madness began… Staff weren’t available, making decisions and plans to create new plans and execute them efficiently… It worked out in the end… I then proceeded to a Management meeting which was suppose to last only a half hour… 2 hours later I walked back into my office and took 2 head ache tablets and analyzed the information I was just given…I was asked to travel around South Africa to all the sites allocated for my customer… Once there I will be teaching them the procedures I have implemented and complete training with all the staff members that will be utilizing my procedures daily…

WOW!!! What an amazing opportunity, I can not wait to start this journey and be able to travel to places I have not yet been… Although I will be working and there will be no time for sight seeing, I am still looking forward to travelling and having new experiences and meeting all the people I usually only converse with over the phone…

How was your Manic Monday??

until next time

x x x

❤ Lady K

This is Halloween, Everybody make a scene…

Hi Ladies,

I thought I’d do a more personal post this time, the creative juices are flowing a bit…

Since it’s Halloween, I decided to dedicate most of my posts to this scary holiday that so many of the world celebrate.

I won’t be posting pictures of my Halloween Party nor will I be spooking out my ladies with my weird outfit choice…unless I’ve tucked into the Troll’s bath for the evening and decided to post something (Look out for the Troll’s bath cocktail post)

I think my love for Halloween stems from my love of horror movies, The idea of putting on layers of face paint and make up to go with the wonderful outfits and special effects that seem to come in smaller boxes these days. I love playing around with my make up set, trying different effects and ideas – Thank you YouTube!

Not only do i have a love for horror movies but the special stories that flow out the mind of Tim Burton, I mean how awesome is the movie – The Nightmare before Christmas!!!! His movies are the only musicals I’d ever subject myself to simply because the songs are catchy and the characters are super cute!! Check out the opening number and tell me it isn’t an adorable take on Halloween – Here

There is this lovely moment I have while getting all dressed up, The one thing I can compare this to is getting ready for a Ball – Only scarier! This moment of looking at yourself in the mirror, a mess because the YouTube tutorials aren’t as easy as I thought they would be, but I’m completely satisfied. The mess ups just go with the outfit, everything that didn’t work out – Oh, Well I’m suppose to be dead!

I love the laughter and jokes that come with something that is meant to be scary. Life is scary, you might as well get as many good laughs and jokes you can out of it – The cocktails are an added bonus to help you enjoy the ride. One night at the end of a month, all people surrounding you are dressed in outrageous outfits and darted up with extreme accessories all for an evening of fun, laughter and scaring. The idea of a small moment of unity that breaks off from the scary outfit you’ve chosen for the evening is something amazing – Isn’t it?

Keep scaring ladies…

x x x

❤ Lady K

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